by Dennis Dalman
One day, Jerry Hess of St. Cloud gave his wife, Judy, a tiny jeweled angel for her charm bracelet.
“This is for you because you are my guardian angel,” he told her.
She was delighted, moved to the point of tears.
Judy is not only Jerry’s guardian angel, she’s also his lifesaver. Thanks to her quick thinking and her use of an automated external defibrillator (AED), she saved Jerry from certain death after he suffered a sudden cardiac arrest.
The Hesses live in rural south St. Cloud near Long Lake. Their neighborhood is one of three in the greater St. Cloud area (two in St. Cloud, one in Sartell) that now have AED Save stations.
Judy remembers that day of crisis, Aug. 3, 2016, as vividly as if it were yesterday.
She and Jerry were planning to drive to Winnipeg, Canada, the next day to visit good friends. It was 10:50 p.m. Judy was in the kitchen; Jerry was in his recliner just six feet from the kitchen door. Suddenly, Judy heard a frightening sound: a raspy gasping inhalation of air followed by a kind of loud whisper. She quickly looked into the living room and saw Jerry sprawled back on his recliner, eyes rolled back, body rigid “as a board,” as she recalled.
She called 911. Then, immediately she started cardiopulmonary resuscitation on Jerry, giving him rhythmic chest compressions as she waited for help to arrive. As luck would have it, Judy had been a CPR instructor at St. Cloud Hospital and knew a lot about heart problems.
When the sheriff’s deputy arrived, Judy grabbed the defibrillator, opened it, placed it on Jerry’s chest and pushed the button, sending a life-restoring shock to his heart, getting it to beat again on its own. He was rushed to the hospital to recover.
While doing CPR on Jerry, even though he could not hear her, she kept telling him, “You’ve got to live, you’ve got to live, Jerry. You have to see your son get married in six weeks. You have to be there!”
Next day, at the hospital, Jerry told Judy how sore his chest was – from her CPR, not from the defibrillator. And she told him she, too, was extremely sore from doing so many chest compressions for 10 minutes.
But it was a “good sore” that made them smile.
“That soreness was caused by love,” she told Jerry. “Lots of love.”
More than 30 years ago, Jerry’s father also suffered a heart problem that required the use of CPR. He did survive. It was at that time Judy decided to take a CPR course. Her expertise eventually led her to become a CPR instructor.
Jerry, a retired insurance agent, now 64, has battled four kinds of cancer, most recently a form of melanoma. Judy is a dental assistant at St. Cloud Veterans Health Care System. They have two sons – Alex and Jordan.
The Hesses live in the Sherwood West neighborhood near Long Lake, just 10 blocks from the new AED SAVE station.
“Defibrillators are vital,” Judy said. “And it’s important for everyone to know that anybody can use them. Don’t be afraid; be a friend. If you ever have a chance to use an AED, don’t think you can’t use it. You can! They are very easy to use. And it’s so important to learn CPR. I’m going to teach it at neighborhood meetings.”
Fortunately, Jerry’s heart crisis didn’t put a stop to him being at son Alex’s wedding. He was there and even danced happily with Marie, his daughter-in-law.
Jerry’s heart problem, however, did put an end to the couple’s trip to Winnipeg, the one they were planning the night the crisis happened. But, wait, there’s good news. Recently, they traveled to Maui, Hawaii, and there, all together happily, were the friends they’d planned to visit in Winnipeg.
Author: Dennis Dalman
Dalman was born and raised in South St. Cloud, graduated from St. Cloud Tech High School, then graduated from St. Cloud State University with a degree in English (emphasis on American and British literature) and mass communications (emphasis on print journalism). He studied in London, England for a year (1980-81) where he concentrated on British literature, political science, the history of Great Britain and wrote a book-length study of the British writer V.S. Naipaul. Dalman has been a reporter and weekly columnist for more than 30 years and worked for 16 of those years for the Alexandria Echo Press.